{"id":2667,"date":"2024-09-18T15:08:18","date_gmt":"2024-09-18T15:08:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/walkingshadowpoetry.com\/blog\/?p=2667"},"modified":"2024-09-18T15:08:20","modified_gmt":"2024-09-18T15:08:20","slug":"we-werent-kids-sharing-candy-or-jokes-by-walking-shadow-poetry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/walkingshadowpoetry.com\/blog\/we-werent-kids-sharing-candy-or-jokes-by-walking-shadow-poetry\/","title":{"rendered":"We weren&#8217;t kids sharing candy or jokes by walking shadow poetry"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Everyone talks about childhood friends,<br>The ones you grew up with, side by side,<br>But no one really mentions the friend you find,<br>When you&#8217;re lost, struggling in life\u2019s rough tide.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It wasn&#8217;t on the playground or in the schoolyard,<br>But somewhere between bills and sleepless nights,<br>Somewhere between failures and new beginnings,<br>I found you, in the chaos of grown-up fights.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We weren&#8217;t kids sharing candy or jokes,<br>But adults sharing burdens no one else could see,<br>Learning how to keep going when hope seemed thin,<br>You stood beside me, just letting me be me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When the world felt too big, too fast, too loud,<br>You were the quiet in the storm, the calm in the rush,<br>We didn\u2019t need words, just the presence was enough,<br>That silent understanding, that gentle hush.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You saw me in moments I thought I&#8217;d break,<br>When dreams slipped through fingers like sand,<br>You held me up with your silent strength,<br>Teaching me that it\u2019s okay to not always have a plan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We didn\u2019t grow together like kids do,<br>We grew <em>because<\/em> we had to, because life was hard,<br>And through the grind, the tears, the small wins,<br>You were the one standing there, always on guard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I didn\u2019t need to explain the weight I carried,<br>You just knew, in that unspoken way we share,<br>No childhood memory could ever compare,<br>To the bond that grew through adult despair.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So here&#8217;s to the friend I found in the madness,<br>The one who saw the cracks but never judged,<br>Who walked with me, step by step, through the mess,<br>And still stayed when the world held a grudge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because those are the friends that matter the most,<br>Not the ones from childhood\u2019s fleeting fun,<br>But the ones who come in the midst of survival,<br>And stay, until the fight is won.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So no, we didn\u2019t start as kids on swings,<br>But we built a friendship that\u2019ll outlast the pain,<br>Through the sweat, the tears, the late-night talks,<br>We found something real, something that\u2019ll remain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And in this adult world, where it\u2019s hard to stand,<br>I\u2019m just grateful I found your hand.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Everyone talks about childhood friends,The ones you grew up with, side by side,But no one really mentions the friend you find,When you&#8217;re lost, struggling in life\u2019s rough tide. 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