{"id":3107,"date":"2025-03-12T15:48:16","date_gmt":"2025-03-12T15:48:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/walkingshadowpoetry.com\/blog\/?p=3107"},"modified":"2025-03-12T15:48:18","modified_gmt":"2025-03-12T15:48:18","slug":"silent-wounds-when-boys-are-left-to-suffer-by-walking-shadow","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/walkingshadowpoetry.com\/blog\/silent-wounds-when-boys-are-left-to-suffer-by-walking-shadow\/","title":{"rendered":"Silent Wounds: When Boys Are Left to Suffer by walking shadow"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>They never talk about it,<br>Not when it\u2019s a boy.<br>Because somehow, pain has a gender,<br>And if you&#8217;re a man, you&#8217;re supposed to endure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They tell you to toughen up,<br>Be strong, move on,<br>Like your body wasn\u2019t broken in ways words can\u2019t hold.<br>Like your spirit didn\u2019t shatter in a room too cold to breathe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And the worst part?<br>No one wants to listen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They laugh it off like it\u2019s a sick joke,<br>Slap your back and say, &#8220;Ah, you\u2019ll be fine, bro.&#8221;<br>As if what happened didn\u2019t crawl beneath your skin,<br>Didn\u2019t twist your nights into endless fights with yourself.<br>And when you try to speak, their faces turn blank,<br>Because society is not built to handle a broken boy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But let me tell you what it\u2019s like<br>It\u2019s waking up feeling dirty,<br>Like your body isn\u2019t yours anymore,<br>Like your skin betrayed you and the world joined in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s flinching when someone stands too close,<br>When a hand rests on your shoulder,<br>Because that touch doesn\u2019t feel safe,<br>Not anymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s wondering if you\u2019re still human,<br>If you\u2019ll ever be whole,<br>If the memories will stop clawing their way back<br>Every time the room gets quiet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And the shame?<br>It\u2019s heavy.<br>It makes you sit in rooms full of people<br>But feel like you\u2019re the only one drowning.<br>Because who do you tell when no one believes you?<br>When they say, \u201cYou\u2019re a man you\u2019re supposed to want it\u201d?<br>As if being violated is something anyone would choose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And the questions haunt you.<br>Did I fight hard enough?<br>Should I have screamed louder?<br>Why didn\u2019t anyone see the fear in my eyes?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But no one asks those questions on your behalf,<br>Not when you\u2019re a boy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And society?<br>They treat it like it\u2019s nothing.<br>Like your pain is less valid<br>Because you\u2019re not supposed to hurt like that.<br>They say, \u201cIt happens to girls,\u201d<br>And brush your wounds under the rug.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But pain does not discriminate.<br>It does not ask if you are strong or soft,<br>It just stays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And the silence? It kills.<br>It keeps you locked inside yourself,<br>Afraid to speak because you\u2019re told real men don\u2019t cry,<br>But inside, you\u2019re breaking into pieces no one sees.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let me say this,<br>It\u2019s okay to speak up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s okay to say that your body was taken from you,<br>That your dignity was stripped away,<br>That no, you didn\u2019t want it,<br>And no, it doesn\u2019t make you weak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You deserve to be heard.<br>You deserve to be believed.<br>And you deserve to heal,<br>No matter who you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To anyone listening, stop minimizing the pain.<br>Stop brushing off the cries of broken boys<br>As if their wounds are less real.<br>Because when we ignore their voices,<br>We force them to carry a burden too heavy to bear alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And to the one who knows this pain,<br>Your story matters.<br>And no matter what they say,<br>You didn\u2019t deserve this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not your fault.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And I promise you,<br>Healing is still yours to claim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You are not alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"HAPPIEST INTERNATIONAL WORKING MOMS DAY | 12TH MARCH 2025 | SPOKEN WORD POEM\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/zKRihm5C1As?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>They never talk about it,Not when it\u2019s a boy.Because somehow, pain has a gender,And if you&#8217;re a man, you&#8217;re supposed to endure. 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