{"id":3255,"date":"2025-04-27T13:56:03","date_gmt":"2025-04-27T13:56:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/walkingshadowpoetry.com\/blog\/?p=3255"},"modified":"2025-04-27T13:56:05","modified_gmt":"2025-04-27T13:56:05","slug":"is-your-circle-really-as-strong-as-you-think","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/walkingshadowpoetry.com\/blog\/is-your-circle-really-as-strong-as-you-think\/","title":{"rendered":"Is Your Circle Really as Strong as You Think?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>You know&#8230;<br>I don&#8217;t think we really get it.<br>We chase vibes, we chase crowds,<br>but we forget the power of real friendships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m not talking about the squad you party with on Friday nights.<br>No.<br>I&#8217;m talking about the ones who would answer your call at 2 a.m.,<br>half asleep but already grabbing their car keys,<br>just to drive you to the hospital.<br>The ones who show up,<br>not just when it\u2019s fun,<br>but when your world is falling apart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The ones who will sit with you in waiting rooms,<br>share their home when you got nowhere else to crash,<br>whisper hope into your ears when your heart has forgotten how to beat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The ones who don&#8217;t just post you,<br>but pray for you.<br>The ones who don\u2019t just say &#8220;you got this,&#8221;<br>but help you get it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We think romance will save us,<br>and yeah, love is beautiful,<br>but hear me:<br>if you don&#8217;t have a few real friends,<br>you&#8217;re walking through life half-armed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You don\u2019t need a stadium.<br>You don&#8217;t need a crowd shouting your name.<br>You need two&#8230; maybe three&#8230;<br>the kind you can fall apart in front of,<br>and they&#8217;ll still call you home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I can&#8217;t stress this enough,<br>you need real ones.<br>Not perfect,<br>but present.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because when the lights go off,<br>and the crowd goes quiet,<br>it\u2019s those few who will sit with you in your silence,<br>without needing you to perform.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because real ones don\u2019t just celebrate your wins,<br>they carry you when you can\u2019t even lift yourself,<br>they see the cracks in your smile and still choose to stay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because life gets heavy sometimes,<br>and the right people won\u2019t make you carry it alone,<br>they\u2019ll step into the weight with you,<br>no questions asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/walkingshadowpoetry.com\/blog\/i-let-you-go-because-i-learned-to-love-me-too\/\">I Let You Go, Because I Learned to Love Me Too<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@walkingshadowpoetry\/video\/7490579299418868997\">(70)Walking Shadow Poetry Kenya (@walkingshadowpoetry) | TikTok<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"SCARED OF BEING ALONE SPOKEN WORD BY WALKING SHADOW POETRY\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/xE4HPD3mefc?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You know&#8230;I don&#8217;t think we really get it.We chase vibes, we chase crowds,but we forget the power of real friendships. 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