{"id":3497,"date":"2026-01-08T12:25:14","date_gmt":"2026-01-08T12:25:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/walkingshadowpoetry.com\/blog\/?p=3497"},"modified":"2026-01-08T12:25:21","modified_gmt":"2026-01-08T12:25:21","slug":"let-me-tell-you-the-kind-of-love-i-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/walkingshadowpoetry.com\/blog\/let-me-tell-you-the-kind-of-love-i-want\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00a0\u201cLet Me Tell You the Kind of Love I Want\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Let me tell you<br>the kind of love I want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not the loud kind.<br>Not the one that hurts and then apologizes.<br>Not the one that makes me feel like I\u2019m too much<br>for asking to be treated gently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want a patient love.<br>The kind that waits.<br>The kind that doesn\u2019t rush my healing<br>or punish me for growing slowly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want a peaceful love.<br>One that feels like rest,<br>not something I have to recover from.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want someone who listens.<br>Not just nodding,<br>not just waiting for their turn to speak,<br>but actually hearing me.<br>Hearing what I say<br>and what I struggle to say.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want a love that cares.<br>Not only when it\u2019s convenient,<br>but when I\u2019m quiet,<br>when I\u2019m tired,<br>when I don\u2019t have my strength together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want a love that is intentional.<br>The kind that chooses me on purpose.<br>Interested.<br>Present.<br>Not guessing.<br>Not unsure.<br>Not halfway in and halfway out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want to feel valued.<br>Not tolerated.<br>Not kept around.<br>Chosen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want to feel seen.<br>Really seen.<br>Not just for who I am right now,<br>but for who I\u2019m trying to become.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want someone who reminds me of my worth,<br>not by controlling me,<br>but by believing in me.<br>By speaking life into me<br>even on the days I forget myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want a love that cares about my growth.<br>Not one that gets comfortable with my current version<br>and asks me to stay the same<br>so they can feel safe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want a love that wants me to grow,<br>even when growth changes things.<br>Even when it\u2019s uncomfortable.<br>Even when it requires patience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want a love that makes me better,<br>not bitter.<br>Stronger,<br>not scared.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want a love built on loyalty.<br>The kind that stays<br>not because it has to,<br>but because it wants to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want friendship.<br>The kind where we laugh freely,<br>where honesty doesn\u2019t feel dangerous,<br>where disagreement doesn\u2019t turn into distance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want honesty.<br>The kind that tells the truth<br>without breaking my spirit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want growth.<br>Together.<br>Side by side.<br>No dragging.<br>No competing.<br>No leaving one behind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want a love that corrects me with kindness.<br>That holds me accountable<br>without making me feel small.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want a love that is gentle with my healing.<br>That understands some wounds<br>don\u2019t need fixing,<br>they need time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want a love that doesn\u2019t rush my pain,<br>but sits with me in it<br>and reminds me<br>I don\u2019t have to walk alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s the kind of love I want.<br>Not perfect.<br>Not flashy.<br>Just real.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if you\u2019re listening,<br>now you know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/walkingshadowpoetry.com\/blog\/to-everyone-who-made-it-to-the-end-of-2025-successful\/\">To Everyone Who Made It to the End of 2025 successful &#8211; Walking Shadow Poetry<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/share\/v\/17iCqfRLcW\">https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/share\/v\/17iCqfRLcW<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Turns Out I Was Right \u2013 I Saw It Coming but     Spoken Word by Walking Shadow Poetry\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/xacEsG4Cyfg?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let me tell youthe kind of love I want. Not the loud kind.Not the one that hurts and then apologizes.Not the one that makes me feel like I\u2019m too muchfor asking to be treated gently. I want a patient love.The kind that waits.The kind that doesn\u2019t rush my healingor punish me for growing slowly. 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